In Remembrance
Yesterday was 20 years since my mother passed away. I like that this remarkable day is also the Feast day of Saint Francis of Assisi. Twenty years have flown by, twenty years I've lived without her here on earth. I'm tethered to her memory through my sister, my dad and my aunt. I clearly remember thinking how I could not imagine life without her presence. She was my go to person to ask for advice, not that I agreed with her or adopted her advice. Yet, twenty years have been successful living. Sometimes I get jealous of people who have moms. But then I know people who are only children and are jealous that I have a sister. My mom was creative, smart but introverted. She was not a risk taker and preferred making surefire safe decisions. She was also stubborn and opinionated, both qualities I share with her at times when I truly believe I am in the right (I frequently am). Some people work on saying 'no' to others because they always agree and need to